And unlike any other toy on this list

Womanizer Enhance Review: A Clitoral Suction Toy and Vibrator

If you’re looking to treat yourself in the bedroom there are millions of sex toys to choose from, but one of the greatest things about masturbating is you’re totally in control. Ensure that it’s wide, narrow, or long enough to align with the circumference of your clit, advises Stone. If you want to pair the panty vibe with tighter clothing, it’s best to avoid “bullet-vibe-lookin’ bulges,” says Queen. One of the biggest benefits of panty vibrators is their discretion and versatility.

The best part is that there’s a plethora of different waterproof vibrators to explore — want clitoral stimulation? There are also quite a few G-spot vibrators, wands with powerful vibrations, and even wearable strapless strap-ons to experiment with. After spending quality time with the LELO Enigma Double Sonic, I can confidently say it’s a unique player in the world of pleasure products. The combination of clitoral suction and deep internal vibrations led to some of the most intense and sustained orgasms I’ve ever experienced (yep). While it took some experimentation to find the perfect position and settings, the journey of discovery was half the fun. The techy tool features an air-pulsing head for the clitoris, an insertable shaft to target the G-spot and, best of all, innovative robotic technology that mimics the sensation of a finger caressing the G-spot.

Generally, you can count on high-quality vibrators to land somewhere between $50 to $150. Make sure that regardless of price point, the vibe you’re buying is made of body-safe materials like platinum-grade silicone. No matter what, the general consensus among experts is that your toy should be phthalate-free vibrator, Howard says. Phthalates are a group of chemical plasticizers typically used to make plastics softer, so you usually spot them in jelly-like toys.

The stroker-style ones may require an erection for you to penetrate them—but aside from that, a lot of vibes feel great regardless of how your boner may ebb and flow. While this is commonly seen as a toy for vulvas, it can be—and is—enjoyed by many people of all genders and anatomies. Its vibrations are so satisfyingly deep that they feel good on pretty much any erogenous zone, from clits to dicks to taints to nipples. It’d make a great gift for a partner, too, since you’ll both be able to enjoy it, both separately and together. And unlike any other toy on this list, if the Magic Wand Rechargeable dies on you mid-session, you can just plug it in and keep on going, because it’s wired to be useable while charging. They all have a mouth, and inside that mouth is a (typically) silicone membrane that an internal motor moves in and out.

Its slim profile is ideal for pinpoint stimulation of the clitoris or nipples, and its metal construction means you can play with heating it up or cooling it down for some sexy temperature play, too. It’s rare to find a bullet vibe that’s made to be used internally, but this one is, which makes it a standout in my collection. It’s got a small curve to hit the G-spot when inserted vaginally, but that same curve also makes it useful for applying targeted pressure to different parts of the clitoris. The motor is thrillingly rumbly, too, meaning it’s less likely to cause the numb or itchy feeling that some buzzier (i.e. higher-pitched) vibrations can cause. Doctors or midwives applied vegetable oil to women’s genitals and then massaged them with one or two fingers inside and the heel of the hand pressing against the clitoris. With this type of massage, women had orgasms and experienced sudden, dramatic relief from hysteria.

Understand that using sex toys is part of having a healthy and satisfying sex life, and many people use them regularly so there’s no need to feel like you’re abnormal for wanting to try them for yourself. If you’re unsure whether your toy is waterproof, the first thing you should do is check the packaging and instruction manual as this is a key selling feature of sex toys and will definitely be made clear if it is. If it doesn’t say it’s waterproof, err on the side of caution and assume it’s not. I promise—this is the last Womanizer product I’ll mention, but there’s a good reason it’s here.

You’ll also want to make sure that you cover your chosen object with a condom. And, again , once you start using it for sexy purposes, it gets retired from it’s initial function. Not only do they help keep your teeth clean, they’re great for masturbation as well! In fact, they’re so commonly used that some sex toy providers have started selling attachments meant specifically for use with an electric toothbrush.

They called them “paroxysms” because everyone knew that women were incapable of sexual feelings, so they could not possibly experience orgasm. Before taking a new sex toy to bed, I spend some time learning how to turn it on and off, as well as how to use the various functions—so I did the same with the Vibrato. As a person who is admittedly bad with technology even when I’m not seconds away from orgasm, I generally look for gadgets with intuitive button designs. To me, that means just one single switch or a clearly labeled control panel. For people with vulvas, there’s a whole host of ways to have a really good orgasm.